In Harvey’s Memory

Throughout his life, Harvey Schnell never met a stranger. Friendly, warm, and full of joy, he had a gift for making everyone feel welcome — often within minutes and usually with a joke not far behind. His smile came easily, his laugh was contagious, and he believed that even on difficult days, there was always room for a little levity.

His wife of nearly 50 years, Linda, lovingly calls him her “idol.” She reflects on the grace and dignity with which he lived his life until his passing in 2024. She is just as quick to remember his humor, playful comments, and the way he could lighten even the heaviest moment with perfectly timed wit.

A Brooklyn native, Harvey built a life rooted in connection, loyalty, and kindness. Linda, a lifelong Bergen County resident, shared that life and love with him for five decades. Together, they turned to The Valley Hospital for their healthcare needs over the years — from routine appointments to critical surgeries. But it was the care Harvey received from Valley Home Care and Hospice during the final 11 months of his life that left the deepest and most lasting impression.

“Angels really do walk this earth, and the team at Valley Home Care and Valley Hospice were our angels,” Linda said. “I am so grateful for the way they took care of Harvey.”

Even during his final months, Harvey remained unmistakably himself. He formed real bonds with his caregivers — learning their names, asking about their families, and making them feel like old friends. Linda recalls moments when members of his team would leave the room smiling, having been uplifted by the very person they were there to care for.

On several occasions — both before and after Harvey’s passing — members of the team shared how much they appreciated who he was and what he taught them about living fully, even in life’s most difficult chapter. His humor did not minimize the seriousness of his illness; rather, it reminded everyone around him of the joy that still existed.

In gratitude for the extraordinary care he received, Linda honored Harvey’s memory and legacy with a $500,000 gift supporting Valley Hospice and the Butterflies pediatric palliative care and hospice program. She also established a charitable remainder trust naming Valley Hospice and Butterflies as beneficiaries.

“The compassionate care that Harvey received at the end of his life meant so much to me,” Linda shared. “I want other families going through this experience to feel the same support and love we did. The hospice team touched my heart on such a personal level that I wanted to help ensure they can continue their remarkable work.”

Through her generosity, Linda is extending Harvey’s spirit — his warmth, his kindness, and yes, even his sense of humor — to countless families, leaving a legacy not only of compassion, but also of joy.

To learn more about giving through a charitable trust or your estate plans, call Bettina Daly at 201-291-6193.